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Days Go By - Lessons From a Solo Busker

1/4/2013

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Days Go By - Lessons From a Solo Busker
I'm pretty new to the travel blogging scene, so while perusing through the latest travel tweets last night, I was pleasantly surprised to stumble upon the hashtag#TNI, an apparently popular interactive tweet session between drifters, expats and armchair travelers alike. 

The subject of the night was on the evergreen topic of 'solo travel'. This was question #10:

Q10. Favorite thing about solo travel?#TNI

— Independent Traveler (@TravelEditor) January 3, 2013
I thought about it for a few seconds, mulling it over in my mind. As some of you may have got from my previous posts, I prefer solo travel over groups. Not in the strictest sense that I must be alone at all times, but more in the habit of leaving for a destination alone, with the intent of meeting and making new friends there. So after a few seconds thought, this is the answer I tweeted: Whenever someone discovers who you are for the first time, it gives you an opportunity to REdiscover yourself.  Short, sweet and less than 140 characters.  A few minutes later I got this encouraging tweetback:

"@driftersblog: Whenever someone discovers who you are for the first time, it gives you an opportunity to REdiscover yourself" Love this!

— LifesGreatAdventures (@LifesGreatAdv) January 3, 2013

It was Aisleen Marley from"Life's Great Adventures". Now, being a relative nobody on the travel blogger scene, I was pretty stoked to get a tweetback from ANYONE in response to my answer, especially from a fellow digital drifter! Let's just say it was a great confidence boost. Just those 2 words from her, "Love this!",  gave me the kick I needed. I tweeted back that maybe I'd blog about it.  This was her encouragement to me:

@driftersblog Go 4 it! i think theres lots of peeps who'd luv 2rediscover/reinvent themselves (me included) & travel makes that possible!

— LifesGreatAdventures (@LifesGreatAdv) January 3, 2013

This brief conversation encouraged me to get my creative thinking cap out, and it reminded me that my next post would be for this segment,"Days Go By".  One of my favorite Instagram pictures was up for selection. It was of a young Taiwanese street musician, busking solo. I decided that this was the perfect pic to blog about!

So what's the story behind it?

Well, the night I snapped this picture I had been sitting around at Kaohsiung Main Station in South Taiwan, trying to catch up on some things. I was alone of course, and I found myself kicking back observing the people as they bustled by. This is when I noticed The Kid. He couldn't have been much older than a college student, and he was busy setting up his equipment for street busking.

Mind you, it's not very popular to be a street performer in Taiwan. Many locals see it as an act of desperation, craziness or a desire to draw unnecessary attention to yourself. So I was pretty impressed to see a young kid lugging around the full setup; guitar, mic stand, sheet stand and amp. And what's more, his amp was busted! It wouldn't project clearly. As he fiddled with it, he kept sheepishly muttering into the mic that he was sorry, that he had dropped it earlier in the day, and that he would fix it soon.

He didn't. The Kid never got it to work. He stood there for over an hour trying to fix it, but despite his best efforts the amp only sizzled and popped and spat out muffled, annoying sounds. But the thing that caught my attention was that he never gave up. He pushed through the setbacks. There was a pretty big crowd standing around and waiting, most walked away after a while, giving up on him. But The Kid never gave up on himself, and that's what I admired.

How does this fit in with someone discovering me for the first time? It doesn't. I never actually introduced myself to The Kid personally. But still, I definitely rediscovered things about myself.

I learned that I'm more patient than I was before, patient enough to sit there and wait for some stranger to gather himself and push through a street performance despite lack of ideal equipment. I also REdiscovered that I appreciate others more for their inner qualities, and not for what they have to offer on the outside. The Kid seemed to only play the basic chords over and over again, and his singing voice was mediocre at best. But it wasn't about that for me. It was about showing respect to a young guy who braved the jeering looks of his peers to do what he loved, alone.

This, to me, is reflected in the inner strength and determination of the solo traveler who dares to push through the doubt and laughter of his fair weather peers to discover that he really does have the strength to do it no matter what.

I sat there and watched this street busking solo performance for over an hour. After I got up to leave, I tossed whatever change I had in my pocket into the half opened guitar case in front of The Kid. Without missing a strum, he looked up at me briefly in the middle of his song, gave me a quick nod and said, "謝謝!"

"Days Go By" is a new interactive featurette, where YOU choose an Instagram photo that you like, and I write some background information on what the pic means to me.

How can you get involved? Vote! The choices for next week's installment of "Days Go By" are posted on my Pinterest in the folder "Nominees for Days Go By", so just go there and VOTE by clicking LIKE on whichever pic you want to know more about. The one with the most LIKES will be blogged about next week!

Each featured shot is also published on myPinterest. Look for it to be pinned weekly, somewhere between work and the weekend. 

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Скот
1/3/2013 06:32:58 pm

great article JR! I love watching buskers... I watched a couple of young guys in Kunming, China for about an hour one time. I wish there were more young people doing this here in Ulaanbaatar...it really makes a city come to life a little bit when you see young artists entertaining small crowds.

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JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/3/2013 11:23:20 pm

Why thank you Скот! Your adventures remind me of a very good friend of mine. And how's Ulaanbaatar at the moment? It must be FREEZING! No public busking for now! I agree though, some of the most lively and addictive cities and sites are teeming with street entertainers and artists. Hopefully Taiwan catches on some day.

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Kalei
1/4/2013 11:58:15 am

Too bad Maui doesn't have anything like that. Maybe Oahu? That sounds like a cool thing to experience.

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JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/4/2013 10:24:41 pm

Yeah, I think street performers add life and energy to a place. Hawaii has swap meets. And what baout under the banyan tree in Lahaina? That's where bustling street life can be found!

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Kalei
1/5/2013 02:47:08 am

I don't know... when ever I've gone, there's only been crafts & touristy trinkets sold, and the usual hula show.

JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/5/2013 07:09:34 am

You're right, I remember that now. It's definitely more touristy, with crafts and trinkets. But usually where there's vendors there will be street performers. Maybe one day it'll catch on. What's the hula show like there? Pretty traditional or more touristy?

Kalei
1/6/2013 01:54:17 am

Touristy of course... you wanna go to a hukilau? ;-P Any date confirmation for your April/May visit?

JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/6/2013 11:37:01 am

Oh? We're going to a hukilau? A huki? Huki huki? Huki, huki lau???

Haha, yeah, spare me please!

JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/7/2013 11:32:57 am

Kalei, look like we going push the trip back July. Mom no can get off work so just going wait for her schedule clear up. I let you know the details, but looking at first week three weeks of July!

Kalei
1/7/2013 12:05:42 pm

Awww... I have to wait LONGER, the real bummer part is Crystal definitely won't make it out, her boss won't let her take the summer off. First week of July is usually our District Convention, just come straight to Maui then. ;-P

JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/7/2013 12:50:52 pm

Sorry bout the wait, cuz!

Kalei
1/9/2013 03:27:20 pm

It's okay, I'll survive. Besides Lei & Tita will be out for the summer too. 1st weekend in July is our District, COME ON OVER!

Ash link
1/6/2013 10:39:15 am

Good write ...
I love those moments too...it happens at the most unexpected times,like sitting in a food court while waiting for a plane, or shopping solo to pick out a souvenir for a friend....those introspective moments.

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JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/6/2013 11:38:46 am

Yes, those are great times to catch up on your thoughts and really take in the experience. Plus, you get to meet cool and interesting people that you normally wouldn't have time to meet if you running around with a bunch of your friends.

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1 in about 8 million
1/7/2013 10:16:02 am

Once I saw a striking life-size brass statue standing on a box with a wooden flute and closed eyes... he slowly started to move, golden eyelids still shut, music filled the air... ah, it was a REAL person! A busker. I studied his costume... how would he get that gold off his skin? caked thru his hair? He looked amazing, sounded even better. I think buskers show a lot of faith in humanity, giving freely to strangers... they remind me to be more generous with my own time and talents... may their hats never be empty!

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JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/7/2013 11:36:07 am

Haha, beautiful comment! What a great visual...I could totally picture it in my mind. Yeah, these guys are very talented and they truly do put themselves out there to share their art, takes a brave person to do that. Good reminders for all of us who spend our time out helping others in the community.

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Kara
1/7/2013 11:47:27 am

I really like this artical.... I couldnt stop reading it, and just like when your tea starts to get empty you feel a little sad inside, is what i felt as the end of the chapter drew near.. :)

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JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/7/2013 12:49:48 pm

Aww sorry, didn't mean to make yeah sad there! Just kidding. But glad you liked it. There are a lot of positive things to being alone, as long as you're not lonely!

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Kara
1/7/2013 01:38:42 pm

Yea felt a little upset so i just made another cup.....haha yea I agree.. and reinventing yourself when you travel alone is definitely a positive thing...

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JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/7/2013 02:28:58 pm

Is that code for "Write another 'Days Go By' post?" I'll take it as that.

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Estefanía G. link
1/8/2013 12:07:23 am

Intersting story! Just by reading this I realized Im not very patient! hahah I could imagine the kid trying to fix his equipment and Just imagining it drove me crazy. haha. I think the days go by picture idea is great. good job!

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JR@TheDriftersBlog link
1/8/2013 03:58:21 am

Thanks Stef, glad you liked it. I saw you voted for the next pic on my Pinterest, thanks a lot!

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noel link
9/23/2013 06:43:54 am

what a great read, you have a keen sense of observation and connection to humanity, that's a very rare trait...beautiful

thanks linking this up today also :)

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Marcia link
9/23/2013 07:01:20 am

My sentiments exactly. I don't always travel alone but I look forward to exploring, pushing myself to do things I wouldn't do normally. It's a real confidence booster!

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